I've been thinking a lot lately about whether we've completely lost the ability to be bored, and if that's actually destroying something fundamental about how we think and create. Like, I remember being a kid in the 90s and just... sitting. Staring at a wall, or lying in the grass, or being in the car on a long drive with nothing to do. And yeah, it was uncomfortable sometimes, but something would happen in that space - you'd start daydreaming, making up stories, solving problems in your head without realizing it. Now every single moment of potential boredom is filled. We reach for our phones the second we're waiting for anything. I do it constantly.
But here's what's really bothering me: I've noticed that I can't think deeply anymore. Not in the way I used to. I can consume information incredibly fast - I can read ten articles, watch videos, scroll through whatever - but I can't sit with a single idea for hours and let it develop. My attention feels fragmented. And I'm wondering if it's not just me. I'm wondering if an entire generation is growing up without ever developing the mental stamina for actual boredom, which means they're never developing certain kinds of creativity or problem-solving that require you to be uncomfortable in your own mind for a while.
I'm not trying to sound like a boomer complaining about phones. I'm asking: is boredom a feature, not a bug? Have we optimized away something we actually needed? And if we have, is there any coming back from it, or are we just permanently different now in ways we don't fully understand yet?