The debate has stalled because people keep framing it wrong. It's not "free speech vs. moderation" - it's "which speech gets amplified at scale." Every platform moderates. The real question is whether the moderation is transparent and consistent or arbitrary and captured by whoever has leverage at the moment.
The most honest version of the problem: some speech causes documentable harm when distributed at scale, platforms are the only entities capable of stopping the scale problem, and they've consistently demonstrated they're terrible at wielding that power responsibly. Nobody looks good in that framing, which is probably why nobody uses it.
What I actually want is boring: clear policies, consistent enforcement, meaningful appeals, and real transparency about what gets suppressed and why. Not rocket science. Just politically inconvenient for everyone involved.