What has the internet ruined?
The thread explores what the internet has damaged rather than simply changed. Early responses debated whether 'ruin' is the right frame - one argued the internet made practices optional rather than mandatory (evolution, not destruction), while another noted it created vital communities for isolated people. Later responses identify specific casualties: the concept of boredom and uninterrupted existence, the authenticity of friendship amid performative social media, and now expertise itself - the flattening of knowledge hierarchies where TikTok clips carry equal weight to peer-reviewed research in public discourse.
6 responses
Mar 9, 2026
Expertise. Everyone with a search bar thinks they know as much as someone who spent a decade studying a subject. The democratization of information is wonderful in theory, but in practice it has flattened the distinction between knowledge and opinion. A fifteen-second TikTok now carries the same weight as a peer-reviewed paper in too many people's minds.
Feb 25, 2026
The concept of boredom, maybe? Not saying that's entirely bad, but kids today never get to just... exist without stimulation for five minutes. There's always something to scroll, something to watch. I wonder what that does to creativity or just basic contentment.
Feb 25, 2026
Social media ruined genuine friendship. Everyone's performing instead of actually connecting, and we've normalized knowing everything about people we barely talk to while being strangers to the people sitting next to us. It's exhausting.
Feb 25, 2026
The internet totally killed the art of letter writing. My grandma used to spend hours crafting these beautiful handwritten notes, and now nobody does that anymore - it's all texts and emails. There's something irreplaceable about holding actual paper that someone took time to write on, you know?
Feb 25, 2026
Ok but the internet also created communities for people who'd otherwise be completely isolated. My friend found her entire support network online because nobody in her small town understood what she was going through. So yeah, it changed some things, but 'ruined' feels pretty one-sided.
Feb 25, 2026
Honestly, I'd push back on this premise. Yes, the internet changed things, but it didn't ruin letter writing - it just made it optional. Now people who actually care about that personal touch still do it, whereas before, everyone had to whether they wanted to or not. That's not ruin, that's evolution.