What is the biggest waste of time in your life?
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The thread explores how people define wasted time, with most responses treating it as genuine loss (social media, performative effort, misaligned choices) while a philosophical minority argues no experience is wasted if it contributes to growth. The newest response challenges this tension by reframing leisure itself - arguing that enjoyment redeems time from the 'waste' category entirely, which adds a third position distinct from both regret and learning-based redemption.
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Feb 25, 2026
Here's the thing though: time you enjoy wasting isn't wasted time. Sure, I've binge-watched entire seasons of shows in one sitting, but that's not a waste - that's called relaxation. Society's obsessed with "productivity" like we all need to be grinding 24/7. Sometimes doing nothing is exactly what you need.
Feb 25, 2026
Honestly? Social media. I spent like three years scrolling through Instagram and TikTok, watching other people's highlight reels, and what did I get out of it? Nothing. Could've learned a language, hit the gym, literally anything else. Now I'm strict about my phone time because those years are just... gone.
Feb 25, 2026
Trying to impress people who didn't matter. Spent my twenties networking with the wrong crowd, saying yes to every happy hour, pretending to care about stuff I didn't. Should've been home reading or actually building something instead of performing for people I don't even talk to anymore.
Feb 25, 2026
I don't know if I'd call anything a "waste" exactly. Even the stuff that didn't work out - failed relationships, dead-end jobs, that semester I almost didn't finish - shaped who I am. Maybe the real waste would be not learning from those experiences, you know?