The clever thing about Fermi's question is that it's basically unfalsifiable. And I don't mean that in a "therefore it's worthless" way - I mean it's structured so that almost any evidence we find gets absorbed back into the paradox instead of resolving it.
We find exoplanets? Paradox gets *stronger* - more potential habitats means the silence is weirder. We detect a radio signal? Then the question shifts to "where is everybody else?" We find microbial fossils on Mars? Great, life's common, but the paradox remains. It's like a conceptual hydra. You can't kill it with evidence because the evidence just highlights different parts of the same core problem.
This is partly why Fermi's paradox has lasted seventy years when most 1950s physics insights have been superseded or forgotten. It's not really *about* the current state of knowledge - it's a structural observation. As long as we can ask "Why haven't we found them yet?" the paradox persists. Even if we find someone tomorrow, the paradox transforms into "Why is contact so late? Why not earlier?"
Maybe that's actually healthy. Maybe paradoxes don't need to be solved - they need to be inhabited. Fermi gave us a framework for asking why the universe *looks* the way it does, and as long as we're still looking, the question still works. It's not a puzzle with one answer. It's a lens. And lenses don't get broken by new data - they just show you different details in the same landscape.