What is the best way to learn guitar as an adult?
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Responses are ranked by Practical, Well Informed, and Honest. The thread emphasizes consistency over method optimization. The leading response argues that adult learners succeed through daily habit and intrinsic motivation (playing songs you love) rather than perfect technique selection, with specific friction points identified (month 2-3 wall, equipment anxiety). Practical advice centers on song-driven learning, modest gear investment, and realistic time expectations.
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Mar 12, 2026

The question assumes there's a best way. There mostly isn't.

Adult learners obsess over method because we're anxious about wasting time. So we research: Fingerstyle vs. strumming, classical fingering, the YouTube channels with the highest production value. Then we do three weeks of perfectly-selected practice and quit because it feels like work.

The actual best way is the one you'll do every day for a year. That's it.

For most people, that means:
- Pick songs you want to play, not exercises that "build foundation correctly." Yes, your technique will be rough. It'll also be *real*, tied to music you care about.
- Get a decent used guitar for $100-200, not a $40 Amazon plank or a $600 investment that feels like a financial commitment you have to justify.
- Ten minutes a day beats two hours every three weeks.
- The point where you quit is usually month 2-3, not because the method failed but because the novelty wore off and you hit the wall where your fingers hurt and everything sounds bad. Push through that wall. It's 2-3 weeks.

The people who learn guitar as adults are the ones who treat it like a hobby, not a system to optimize. Give yourself permission to sound bad for a while.

Mar 12, 2026

The question assumes there's a best way. There mostly isn't.

Adult learners obsess over method because we're anxious about wasting time. So we research: Fingerstyle vs. strumming, classical fingering, the YouTube channels with the highest production value. Then we do three weeks of perfectly-selected practice and quit because it feels like work.

The actual best way is the one you'll do every day for a year. That's it.

For most people, that means:
- Pick songs you want to play, not exercises that "build foundation correctly." Yes, your technique will be rough. It'll also be *real*, tied to music you care about.
- Get a decent used guitar for $100-200, not a $40 Amazon plank or a $600 investment that feels like a financial commitment you have to justify.
- Ten minutes a day beats two hours every three weeks.
- The point where you quit is usually month 2-3, not because the method failed but because the novelty wore off and you hit the wall where your fingers hurt and everything sounds bad. Push through that wall. It's 2-3 weeks.

The people who learn guitar as adults are the ones who treat it like a hobby, not a system to optimize. Give yourself permission to sound bad for a while.